Memoirs with Upeksha


Looking back with 2020 vision (almost !)

So where to continue? How about having a look at how this early life has impacted my more recent experience. 'Give me a boy at 7 years old - and I shall show you the man......' say the Jesuits - is this true in my case ?

The first thing to say is that there were a number of factors at my birth which clearly impacted on my later life. Firstly I was born with an eye problem - a weak left eye - which meant that I could not perceive depth of field, as can most people. This means that I tend to perceive th world as if projected onto a flat screen - a bit like a movie. In recent years I have wondered about this, it meant that in a way I was literally not living in the same world as most people. I think this condition effects something like one in fifty peple so it is not really that uncommon. One effect of this was a gerneral lack of engagment in most sports, especially ball games like football, cricket and tennis. Although I was able to play badminton and volleyball reasonably well - the latter I think because it basically involves knocking the approaching ball away from you, sonething of a reflex response in me ! But how much did this influence my interractions with other people ? I now believe it subtley did, for one thinkg not being able to judge distance in the normal way I had less a sense of people being close or distant. So in a sense maybe physically distant people were perceived by me as vividly as those close by ? Interestingly I have recently purchased a home cinema set up which can show 3D movies. The one I have seen so far definitely did look significantly 3D to me at times, making the experience of watching it very vivid inspite of my somewhat impaired vision with both eyes not now fully functional. Interestingly during, and after, viewing it I could literally feel twinges occuring in the left hand side of my brain. I also noticed my general vision after the film was much more three dimensional. Could this suggest possible alteration of brain pathways connected with all this, both previously and due to watching the film ?

Another important factor at my birth was the date - I was born towards the end of the summer holidays - which meant just before the new academic year. The upshot of this was that I was almost a year younger than several people in my year (and class) in both school and later college. I think this had the general effect of making me feel somewhat out of my depth during my time at school, especially earlier on. in the long run this meant I probably had to work harder to keep up with the rest of the class. A situation that in recent years has become a recognised phenomenon affecting the development of many people. On the plus side this also meant that I became accostomed to having to make this extra effort from early on. Maybe in the long run giving me a greater ability to focus on my schoolwork and other things ?

Next looking at my wider family situation I had to grow up in a relatively hard up, but close knit family. With not much income especially during my first few years and also having a partially deaf mother who was also seriously lacking in confidence especially in social situations. On the plus side my mother did her best to bring my sister and me up well. While my dad encouraged my mental development from an early age - encouaging the development of my memory with a memory card game when I was very young and later buying me extravagant and educational presents up into adolescence. This included a quality older children's encyclopedia for Christmas 1968 (when I was 8 years old) which fascinated me from then on. I also remember everal construction sets including a significant amount of the Meccano construction components and plastic assembly kits of boats and planes in particular. He also stimulated my imagination with an expanding train set and a monthly 'Look and learn' magazine, again aimed at somewhat older children. As a result of all this by the age of ten I had a reading age of 14, I passed the 'Eleven plus' Junior school exam putting me into the top stream at secondary school and developed a talent for both art and design. The latter was partially inspired I think by my father's skill at carpentry and general cleverness at fixing things. Thus by the time I left school I had nine 'Ordinary' levels and three Advanced level passes (including grade A in Art at both levels) and could embark on a science degree at a college in East London.

So how about my current interest in 'Spiritual things ?' Well as I mentioned before my near drowning had a huge impact on me and is clearly somethig of an influence with all of this. Also I had joined the Boys' Brigade - a christian boy's movement - at the age of eight. This followed me attending the local Sunday School for a year where I discovered stories and songs about this strange person called Jesus. I continued with the BB for almost ten years - finally leaving the senior section in 1978 at the age of 17 to concentrate on my advanced level exams. Prior to this involvement I can remember many strange experiences when I was very young. Including awareness of what could be called the 'LIttle people' in some parts of the house and even outside. Experiences that would seem to fade particularly once I learned to read. However this kind of experience may well later have fed my artistic immagination and also an early teenage fascination with reading (adult) Science fiction and fantasy novels which developed later on into a general interest in literature. .

So I would say that these and a number of other factors from my early life, as described in my first memoir with Karuna, clearly did influence later life in both good and maybe some more challenging ways. In this at least the Jesuits seem to have got it right.

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Looking back at the seventies

Sitting here now how do I feel about my puberty and teenage years ? How might they have affected my later life ? First of all I would say that growing up in the nineteen seventies had its upside and downside. The upside was a sense, at least earlier on, of progress in society particularly in overall standards of living as evidenced by greater availability of increasingly sophisticated technology such as telephones and washing machines etc. The growth of access to colour television for example was definitely an advance on what we had in the sixties. Also 'pop' and 'rock' music became to some extent more sophisticate and interesting - one thinks of David Bowie and some later 'New Wave' artists. It was also a golden age of cinema with a strong European influence leading to many more grown up and sophisticated films. While for families like mine the standard of living definitely improved during this period. However the downside of the decade was huge, mainly relating to a growimg sense of violence and lawlessness in society. This coincided with political crises at home and abroad following one after another, frequent power cuts especially after 1972 and steadilly rising unemployment which particularly hit my generation. All of this along with the sense of collapsing social values reflected in decreasing numbers going to church and a soaring divorce rate plus general sexual prmissiveness, the latter reflected in a rapidly growing 'Porn' industry. I also remember towards the end of the decade, with the growth of Video cassett player ownership, ultra violent so called 'Video Nasties' began to appear in some shops.

Looking back now I think I can see how so much of seventies life was dominated by a kind of escapism with people seeking relief from the problems of everyday life by retreating into various hobbies, interests and obsessions, from general consumerism and 'Keeping up with the Joneses' to focus on hobbies and sports. In my case such interests included making models, art and a growing interest in Science Fiction books and films. The Sci Fi boom of this period - led by popular TV series like Dr Who and Start Trek and the large number of science fiction novels published each year - ranged from sophisticated works by authors like J G Ballard to the eventual 'Star Wars' craze. The latter film inspiring a new wave of Science Fiction epics of the juvenile 'Space Opera' variety. This again seemed to reflect a general desire for escapism. Even growing drug use and teenage music crazes - beginning in 1976 with the Punk Rock phenomenon - could be seen to some extent as another aspect of this tendency.

My life was no exception to this tendency. However certain other activities, particularly my ongoing engagement with the BB, my acedemic ability and model making and artistic creativity, even my Yoga practice, gave me a focus and self - discipline which definitely stood me in good stead for later life. Indeed other interests such as listening to music and reading Science Fiction and even 'esoterica' like books on UFOs all helped to feed my developing creativity, helping my success in this field. On top of all this my ongoing 'Spiritual awareness' even if in the background, kept me aligned to a sense of life purpose which many others clearly lacked. Thus reducing in me the need for greater escapism, although our general lack of financial resources was also a definite limiting factor while helping to keep my feet planted firmly on the ground. Clearly this latter awareness was a direct result particularly of those two formative experiences - my near drowning at the start of the decade - followed four years later by my initiation by 'King Neptune' into expanded consciousness (possibly with the help of a small dose of LSD in that drink I was given beforehand).

The decade would conclude for me with a number of new significant experiences, particularly in the autumn and winter of 1978 during my first term at North East London Polytechnic. But I feel these are topics for my next series of remeniscences. And so my Schooldays (but not my adolescence) were concluded; and an unexpected future beckoned.

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Looking back at my life in the early 80s

Looking back to these events of around forty years ago the first thing that strikes me is how far I have moved on from that time in so many ways. Generally I have regarded this period, especially the two years following my degree course as the least happy time of my adult life. I remember going to the doctor at the beginning of 1982 and informing him that I felt depressed, he gave me a prescription for some tonic and advised me to try not to worry - this did not seem to be particularly useful advice at the time. But considering the times I was living in I now think I didn't do too bad overall (interesting to note how the two lowpoints of my life - the other being around my 15th birthday - corresponded to particularly low points in the country as a whole). I had successfully passed my degree and also my driving test the following year, at the first attempt. I had something of a social life with Guy and Vince and their friends etc. At the same time my parents were reasonably supporting of my situation.

I was probably humbling for me - after securing my degree - to work at the succession of jobs I did at this time. This included, following on from my five months at the warehouse, leaflet delivery, working in a lumber yard, doing washing up and cleaning at council offices in central London and a brief stint at McDonalds. I was sacked from the latter after ten days for 'lack of keenness' and I suspect they sent a rather poor reference to the next job I applied for: working as a security guard for Group 4. I have lately wondered what would have happpened if they had given me a good reference, might I have ended up working for Group 4 for the rest of my working life ? A thought that now fills me with great relief when I look at how it all turned out !

It is also interesting how my interest in music led me to join a brass band and actually have the sopportunity to perform music for the public. Something I would never have dreamed of doing before it actually happened. At school I had never regarded myself as at all 'musical', having focused very much on Art and Science. How much of an impact did this later have on my ability to stand infront of a class and teach ? Another thing I wouldn't have dreamed of doing before I actually did it and clearly a skill that stood me in good stead later on when setting up my own meditation classes.

Looking back I do seem to have had numerous lucky breaks at this time which were likely to have had a profound effect on shaping my later life, including the following:

1) Reading the Structure of Scientific Revolutions and Tao of Physics and even seeing Eraserhead during my first term at the Polytechnic, opening my mind to new possibilities and beginning my interest in Buddhism.

2) Meeting Peter Wong which gave me an early experience of an 'exotic' culture and also an early opportunity to teach someone else, especially in developing the patience to do this.

3) Getting interested in Jazz music which led directly to my friendships with Guy and Vince, thus gaining a 'mentor' and knowing someone I could hang out with at a particularly low ebb in my life. Also developing an interest in local history leading to other things later on and also allowing me to meet Sandra and all that led to.

4) Something I only just remembered: The Spanish family next door asking me to give private lessons to their young son for a small payment. Thus showing me the possibility of teaching others as a livelihood.

5) mcDonalds possibly sending that bad reference for the Group 4 security job - a lucky escape for me !

6) My mum happening to work for someone whose friend told her about the techer training course at Garnett College for adult education. Something I had not considered doing previously that would subsequently turn my life around.

7) During my first year of teaching at Southwark College noticing a classroom full of BBC micro computers and realising this was the way to go, having learned the barest minimum of computer programming skills in the first year of my degree course.

So inspite of my increasing sense of social alienation during the latter part of my degree course, my depression after it ended and seemingly wasted years of off and on employment and lack of direction I ca now look back at this time as including many blessings for me. Even though it often certainly did not feel like that at the time.

To be continued.....................

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Looking back now at my teaching years

Well - I must admit that looking back now on those years of the late 1980s, having just before this session been typing up the last bit of my previous memoir including details of the attack, I do not feel very happy about it all. Of course it was not all bad and I definitely made some marked progress during this time. But, particularly bringing to mind the attack in 1989 and also what the world around me was like back then, plus my recollections of how I believe others saw me - I am not happy. I can now see why I decided to throw my lot in with the Buddhists from mid 1992 onwards. I think now a lot of this has something to do with my view of the prevailing attitude back then, which was generally self - serving and relatively indifferent to others. This general hardening of attitudes can even be traced back to the late 1960s with the reactions of the older generations to the 'drop - outs' and youth culture and even television in general at that time. I feel now that people were to some extent in effect being forced into a certain way of living and towards a prevailing attitude, wether they liked it or not. This tendency would become particularly prevalent in the '80s and after with the growth of a much more competitive and hard nosed attitude to life which ultimately did not agree with me at all. So I remember a certain sense of relief, though I was also aware that there may have been some issues with the Buddhist movement from fairly early on, but nevertheless relief at not having to engage with this kind of 'rat race' any longer.

In many ways I have since seen my 20s as my period of trying to 'fit in' with conventional life, which ultimately of ourse failed. It is interesting to reflect here on how little of my experience of teaching during these years can even be recalled by me now. I think this is suggestivve of a basic lack of inner integration and awareness back then, with me almost operating on 'automatic pilot' for much of the time. Indeed when I recall my first few attempts at meditation in the spring of 1992 it strikes me how shockingly chaotic my mind was once I focused on it. I would say it took another two or three years at least before I was to experience any deeper sense of mental integration and inner balance. And so even with my recollections of the numerous positive experiences of that period I can truly say I am now very glad it is all behind me and I can finally lay it to rest.

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Reflections on my life back then.

So looking back on this period now how do I feel about it ? Firstly I would say that the years from 1990 to 1994 do represent a fairly adventurous period in my life, from my solo travels abroad to my entering into a new kind of life at the Buddhist community and giftshop. I remember my first day behind the counter at the latter, how strange it felt to be doing a job where I would be directly handling money and even taking it off people ! To say nothing of being trusted with the hundred plus pounds in the till of the cash register !

Here is a list of most of my new experiences from these years: Solo foreign travel; staying at foreign hotels etc. ordering food in foreign restaurants; having to speak in another language - however badly - to get by; crossing the former Iron Curtain; travelling at over 200 miles an hour on a passenger train (the fastest in the world at this time); seeing 'proper' mountains from a distance - still the largest objects I have ever seen; visiting a world famous pilgrimage site; becoming a self - employed trainer earning around 2,000 in a month; learning meditation and seeing how chaotic my mind really was; going on retreat; having bizarre meditation experiences including visual halucinations and strange effects on my breathing; engaging in tradition Buddhist worship - Puja; chanting mantras; living and working with Buddhist; going to Glastonbury and other festivals for the first time - a real blast ! Becoming a mitra or official FWBO member; asking to be ordained as a Buddhist; teaching meditation for the first time at a class in a strange new agey arts centre in Brixton; working in a giftshop during the Christmas and New Year periods.

These are all stand out memories of this time.

I wonder how my life might have turned out if I hadn't taken the plunge ? Maybe marrying a student in this period and becoming manager of the probably soon to be closed centre, while bringing up a family and being commited to working in jobs I probably wouldn't have really wanted to be doing. Its possible I might have ended up by going along to some kind of Buddhist or meditation classes, but surely it would only be possible to engage with them in a relatively superficial way. In short it would entail living a much more conventional life as I had to some extent tried to do throught the '80s. Instead of this I took a few years to get over the alienation that had developed over the previous dozen years or so by immersing myself in a Buddhist life - the right choice I now think.

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End of an epoch - looking back at the late 90s

Yes how do I feel about all this now - those few years at the end of the twentieth century - bringing a turbulent century to a close. In a way, as before, there are interesting parallels in my life at this time and events in the wider world. Clearly my horizons were broadening significantly as in the wider world as old boundaries continued to break down. Along with old certainties following the end of the global scenario of East verses West that had existed for half a century before. I can now easilly see the significance of my move from London to 'fresh fields'. Clearly the less than ideal situation for me in Brighton, though not without the occasional upside, had encouraged me more and more to throw my lot in with the Buddhafield project - which in itself was essentially unbounded. New experiences beckoned, taking me further and further beyond what might be called 'the norm'. However this also included doing very mundane 'feet on the ground' jobs which seemed to revolve around the theme of clearing away rubbish; on beaches, the highway, the city streets and within a factory environment. I can recall during my street sweeping days in Hove running through the entire seven verses and mantras of the Buddhist seven fold puja as regularly practiced at the Buddhist Centre and on my numerous retreats at this time - all very symbolic.

It all seemed to culminate with my 'Going forth' in the spring of 1999, the final year of the century, to the Earth Spirit Festival many miles away - and the 'Homeless life'. Something everyone on the Buddhafield Core Team was doing at least to some extent. Thus we were in a way echoing the going forth of the Buddha and his disciples all those centuries before in North West India. As well as present day Indian Sadhus and even Sangharakshita himself in the years following World War two. The overall sense I get of this event and the period leading up to it, sitting here now is one of release and liberation from a somewhat restricted previous life with corresponding restricted attitudes within myself. In recent days doing this review has rekindled memories and thoughts about those times - some positive but often more somewhat negative, mainly related to some of the attitudes of those around me at this time. But now after sharing a good Upeksha Bhavana with Elisa the overwealming feeling is an appreciation of the positive side of it all. Leaving the past behind, indeed reinvoking the general sense of optimism felt by many as the new century dawned, a sense of new possibilities opening up as old restrictions and assumptions ended.

I find it also interesting to note how this period corresponded with the full emanation of the so called 8th wave (in January 1999) as proposed by Carl Calleman's nine waves hypothesis as read about in recent years by Elisa and myself. Interesting how the sense of broadening horizons even coincided with not only the progress of Globalisation but also the subsequent rise to prominence of the internet. I believe I first heard about a couple of Internet cafes opening in the West End of London a month or so before I first left for Brighton. Indeed one of the Order Members later associated with Buddhafield had been engaged in setting up a new Internet Cafe in Brighton the same month I arrived. I then recall - five years later in the men's community in Streatham - I made my first tentative steps towards creating a few rudimentary website pages of what would become my Livingmandala.net website. Yes it is good and inspiring to sit here now, recalling it all and setting it down on paper !

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Reflections on my time of 'Going Forth'

A theme that has come up for me lately is how my engagement with the FWBO was on some level always something of a compromise - that it was the best situation I could find at the time in terms of what I was looking for. Writing this brings to mind for me again that message from Dharmarucci, who was the person who had interviewed me before my acceptance into the Utpala community in 1993, that ordination was not for me. This inspite of my ongoing close associtation with the Buddhafield wing of the movement - which he by the way had been involved in setting up. He would also cause one of the first 'scandals' of the then Glastonbury Project by openly smoking cannabis in our area at the festival in 1993 - my first year of involvement. He told me I should follow my own path and not someone elses vision ie: Sangharakshita's. Advice that I have since somewhat taken to heart with the setting up of this and three previous meditation projects. I now see these few years from 1999 as a key part of my 'Going Forth' from my past conditioning and maybe yes - onto my own path. A more explicit message would come the following year - another big year of changes for me right from it's very start. The other major point about this period is the rapid deterioration in the international situation - could it be related to Calleman's theory of the 8th and 9th waves in some way ? Who knows - this also would later have an unexpected influence on my developing appreciation of the world and my place in it.

Finally my experience and widening horizons at this time - up to setting up the Urban Permaculture course and also starting to run meditation classes at the new centre would stand me in good stead for my own projects later on. So there we have it - a half dozen or so years of rich experience from which there would be no turning back to the past - indeed my life in the previous (pre 8th wave) century. Sitting here now writing this mid way through a year of such great changes both globally and within myself and my living situation - it all gives pause for thought..............


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My final years in the movement

How do I feel now about my final few years in the movement ? Well it all now looks very much like a step on a path going back a long way, maybe even several lifetimes as witnessed by my gamechanging past life regression. It was also the transition to a more objective view of the society I was, and am, living in. Recognising the fact that it could conceivable come to an end (and probably will if history is any guide). From 2001 on the old modernist (7th wave) assumptions of steady human progress were clearly crumbling. There is also the beginning of a sense of acceleration of life experiences from my entry into the Buddhafield Core team in the year of total Eclipse and 8th wave manifestation. With this background I progressed into the biggest - up to now - change of outlook of my life with my Going Forth into homelessness. Now sitting here, in the global transition year of 2020 - it all feels almost familiar. Roll on the changes and the resolution and release from past restrictive conditioning !


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Looking back from a decade later

So how do I feel about these events around ten years later ? Looking back over these memoirs it is obvious that we have been and continue to live in a turbulent world. If anything events are moving even faster now than before. One can bear in mind here that during the first half of this year the entire world profoundly changed in around three months - probably an unpresidented event in human history. Even when you compare this to the turbulent events of most of the twentieth century.

One might well ask - would we have been better off living in a more tranquil world ? Well I think it depends on what you think life is about. If for you it is essentially about feeling happy and fulfilled in the world then maybe yes. But I believe life is about more than just this, without denegrating this view too much. An alternative view of life might say that in a way the 'down side' is necessary to alow us to best appreciate the positive things going well in life. For me life is ultimately a path of awakening to what could the called 'higher truth' or in Buddhist terms Enlightenment. I would ultimately regard this as probably the best, most sublime state to reach when all is said and done. I would say that such an expanded state of awareness must include an appreciation of the situation of others. This is true for many others on the spiritual path also, in some way or other hopefully assisting in their own awakening.

Looking back at the events from around 2005 to 2011 it is clear to me that my horizons and state of awareness were broadening during this time beyond anything I had experienced during my Buddhafield days. This is the case even though the latter can itself be seen later on as a crucial stage I had to go through to get here. I was now 'back' and engaging with the wider world rather than somewhat separated from most of it in a field in the middle of nowhere. Another notable shift for me during this period is my focus moving away from the movement and particularly Ordination towards setting up my own projects. Representing an engagement based much more on my own personal vision and experience. This tendency would increase during the subsequent decade, indeed right up to the present day. Onwards and upwards as they say, but also wider and deeper as well.


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Looking back at looking back

A lot happened during these years - I lost my father and broke off from my engagement with the FWBO and ordination in particular. I made new friends, changed my spiritual directon to a more 'mainstream' one and even started to take communion at the chapel and last but no means least met my good friend Elisa. I also had a number of quite bizarre experiences on the way ! Interestingly I can reflect while writing this on seeing my old mate Stephen yesterday and even speaking on his phone to Stiracitta - who taught me to meditate over 28 years ago. A little later Stephen and I watched the marvelous video of that Bowie concert from 2000 on my big screen. So at the moment quite frankly - all feels right with the world. In the end these experiences have all contributed to who I am now and indeed the situation I find myself in, which over all - has a lot to commend it...............


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Concluding thoughts on a varied life so far

Well here we are - around four months after I started these remeniscences and four days from my sixtieth birthday - how can I conclude ? What do I think about all these experiences and changes in life direction ? Well here's a thought:

At the beginning of 2015 I was in a quandry - why is it I asked myself that people just don't seem to 'get me' - why can't they see what to me is blatantly obvious ? I came to the conclusion that if we are at least in part a product of our life experiences then surely it will be easier to understand people who have had a roughly similar range of experiences. So I set about analysing the main components of my changing 'life style' over the years in terms of their likelihood in other people's experience.

To begin I thought - OK there are coming up to 8 billion people alive now in the world, of which maybe 10 % have, like myself, grown up in a developed society and country like this one, with all that this has to offer in terms of life chances and richness of experience. I thought this was likely an overestimate (the actual total may be nearer half a billion if we are refering to the developed West) but that it would be better to overestimate numbers to allow for any likely errors. So I came up with that estimate of one billion people growing up in developed societies world wide. I reckoned that of these billion around half would have grown up like myself in what could be called a 'traditional working class' type social background. This would likely include a father basically hiring out his labour and manual skills to an employer who would likely be of a higher social status and very much be able to dictate his terms of work. Well half a billion people is still a large number so nothing that unusual so far in my early childhood lifestyle. But then a rather unusual thing happens that comes to in some ways define the rest of my life. Just before my tenth birthday I almost drown in the sea, an event that did indeed have a profound effect on my future life direction as it turned out. So how many of this half billion people might have experienced a similar life defining event at such an impressionable age - old enough for it to be consciously aknowedged fully but still young enough for it still to have such a profoundly life - changing effect. Well probably overestimating again I guessed at a likelihood of one person in fifty which reduces the previous number to around ten million - still a large number but only now equating to something like one in seven hundred people taken at random from around the world - which is not so far from one in a thousuand.

I next considered my school experience, I had been exceptionally talented at art from a quite early age - way beyond what the vast majority of my contemporaries seemed to be capable of. Well I reckon that in an average class of say 20 children you might find one person who excells at a subject in this way - whatever it might be: art, maths, sport ect. This will tend to cause the child to see themselves as 'special' in some way compared to others which is likely to have a powerful effect on how they view themselves and their attitude to life as a whole I think - for good or ill. On the plus side this may well open up new possibilities for them. Well that one in 20 ratio takes the number down to around half a million people out of the entire world population (in our somewhat overestimated reckoning). Following on from this I then considered that I went on to higher education and eventually attained a reasonable degree pass - but in a completely different subject (so I had more than one 'string to my bow' so to speak). This had the effect of enabling me to move up significantly beyond my mother and father's social status and 'class' - with the associated benefits but also difficultires likely to be encountered. I came to the conclusion that people in a similar situation to me (but maybe not so much those from working class origins) would be much more likely to go on and do a degree in the subject they were actually best at - unlike myself. I decided that the chance of such a thing happening could not be more than one in ten - leaving myself now in a group of around 50,000 world wide or around one out of 100,000 people picked out at randon. My life was now becoming much more unusual, even though I have to say I ultimately think I am in myself a fairly 'ordinary' bloke. Furthermore I then went on to join the teaching profession, well I did know that historically it has been quite common, at least in Britain, for academically able students from modest backgrounds such as myself to go on to become teachers. So I estimated that maybe half of this group would go on to do just that - leaving around 20,000 people, myself included (compensating for some of the early overestimating). This would equate the kind of numbers likely to attend a big international football match - not so many in relation to the entire global populaton, infact I would equate to being one in four million on this reckoning ! At the same time as becoming a teacher I started to practice Tai Chi as a form of 'spiritual / physical excercise' which I continued to practice (with a few breaks) for the next twenty years making it a significant part of my earlier life experience. I think Tai Chi could be compared in this way to a number of other disciplines - yoga, Martial arts and even Elisa's Indian Dance, whereas more purely 'physical' pursuits such as swimming and cycling would not really be equivalent. I reckon of this remaining 20,000 people at the very most something like one in ten would do something similar. Now bringing our total down to just 2,000 out of the entire world (around four times the number of boys in my old secondary school). I am now becoming something of a rare bird - one in forty million no less !

And now we come to the last 28 years - well How many of these 2,000 people would jack in an eight year career as a teacher to join some kind of religious group, ending up working for them and living in communities for the next ten years plus as I did with the FWBO ? Well I reckon it couldn't be more than one out of 50 - leaving myself in a group of just 40 people ! Then when I factor in my three years with the Buddhafield core team (plus some involvement for several years before that). Well - what can be equated to this experience - well if we stretch things enough we might just include people doing things like becomming missionaries in distant isolated places probaly in the third world. Even stretching it this far I think we are probably looking at around one person out of a hundred - which means that it would just be myself - the total actually equating to half a person out of the entire world's population. So at this point I become unique in the world, with simply nobody else likely to have had a sequence of lifestyle experiences comparable to mine. Well actually statistically there might be a one in four chance of there being one other person out there somewhere. Of course we should also at this point bear in mind that as the man said 'there are lies, damn lies and statistics' !

In principle I could take this further - I went on after Buddhafield to work at a large urban religious / spiritual centre (the NLBC) for a total of four years (certainly a big change from Buddhafield !) I then became the live in carer for first my father and then my mother and did this for 11 years (I then moved out), during this period I set up my own meetings independently. I also changed my religious alliegance during this period - leaving the FWBO and joining Brixton Unitarians. No wonder nobody 'gets it' !

But the above also means I am likely to have unique insights to offer, along with a take on things that is maybe unique. So how about you Elisa (and indeed the person reading this website page now) - how many people have you met who are anything like yourself ? And what have you got to offer ? We shall see...............

PS - The world changed in March (2020) - the life I have described above in effect concluded with it I now believe.

PPS - Time to create something new from this ...






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